3 THINGS that YOU SHOULD NEVER DO IN YOUR LIFE!

Today's topic is very interesting because you always might have heard people saying you do this, you do that, but never heard saying what no to do!

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So today, we are going to discuss what are those 3 things that one should never do in his/her life whether be a male or a female, a student or a grownup, a job person or a businessman, rather a person in any stage of his/her life.

1. According to me, we should never say no to any situation immediately without thinking on it. It might be possible due to our past experiences that we directly say no to a particular situation. It is quite obvious, but we should also remember that same things do not happen again and again. Your one no can make you regret for your whole life. Imagine a person is willing to give you a huge opportunity, but you had said no immediately just by hearing his initial words and later regretted after knowing the real truth. You might have heard stories like this from your ancestors. So, never be too strong on your yes and no, both. Always take some time to think, to study both the bright and dark sides and then only take your decision intelligent. Taking your own time also doesn't give you freedom to think for years. There are many people waiting in this world for one opportunity and you may loose it with them. By analyzing everything in appropriate time limit, you will never regret on yourself.
2. You should never keep a doubt on yourself. If you will doubt yourself, like whether I will be able to do it or not, then you will always give excuses remembering that doubt. You will never have confidence in doing that work. A little of doubt is essential many-a-times because taking big decisions requires a study on your capabilities. But, excess of anything is very bad. So, how will you deal with this self-doubting? Firstly, never compare yourself with others. We all are humans. We all have same brains just the information is different. There is no as such a difference in our brain and Einstein's brain, just the information is different. So always feed your brain with right and helpful information. Always have faith in yourself and know yourself, know your capabilities, learn yourself. This will solve the problem of self-doubt.
3. We should never forget our roots, for example, our parents. Have you ever pondered on what decides the size of a plant? It's its roots. The roots decide how much bigger and larger the plant would grow. The deeper the roots, the bigger the tree. So if you decide to grow higher up in your life, your roots should be deep enough. So, never ever disrespect your parents, never! There's a good exercise you can do to determine an unknown person's behavior- observe how he/she behaves with his/her parents. A person who disrespects his/her parents, what respect do you expect from him/her for you. Some or the other time, you are also going to fall prey. So, always  respect your parents. But this doesn't mean that there must be no difference in opinions and thoughts. There should be. But, their solution must be taken out by mutual understanding and thinking. Sometimes they might be correct, you might be wrong and vice-versa. Hence, clarification of thoughts and confusions is very important and giving respect is a different thing. So never forgetting your roots means never forget those people who you know very deeply, who were standing with you in your worst of worst times. They are yours! You hearts are one! Never forget them.

To summarize, 3 things that you should never do in your life are:

1. Never take decisions immediately.
2. Never doubt yourself.
3. Never forget your roots.